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Decide

Make the decision yours.

Decide combines a 60-minute one-to-one coaching session with personalised preparation, a tailored plan, practical experiments and continued support afterwards.

For the decision that has become difficult to see clearly from inside your own life.

DECIDE
$650.00

For the decision you need to make.

There comes a point when thinking about a decision for longer doesn't necessarily make it clearer.

In this 60-minute session, we'll get inside the decision with you. We'll look at what is making it difficult, what is influencing the way you're seeing it and what you already know but haven't been able to trust or act on.

It might concern your relationship, career, family, business, an opportunity you're considering or a significant change in your life. Whatever the decision, you don't need to arrive prepared or have your thoughts in order. Come as you are and we'll start there.

60 minutes · One-to-one · Online

After purchase, we’ll email you a link to choose a time for your session.

Some decisions are difficult because more than one truth is present. You can want change and care deeply about what that change may affect. You can recognise an opportunity while carrying responsibility for the life already built around you. Advice can add more voices. More thinking can keep returning you to the same place.

Decide is built for that complexity. It brings the influences surrounding the decision into view, so you can separate what is yours from everything competing with it.

Every decision is made by a whole human.

Your physical state, surroundings, relationships, beliefs, past experiences, intuition and sense of purpose can all affect how you see a decision.

Proper Standard brings these influences together through Body, Environment, Mind and Energy. We look at the full picture: what is informing the decision, what is creating interference and what becomes clearer once those influences are visible.

You remain the decision-maker. Decide gives you a clearer view of what you choose and a practical way to begin acting on that choice.

HOW DECIDE WORKS


01 Prepare

Complete a pre-session self-audit about the decision, the circumstances surrounding it and what has made clarity difficult.


02 Decide

Meet one-to-one with Elle or Tamara for a 60-minute coaching session centred on the decision and the influences surrounding it.


03 Apply

Receive your personalised session summary, a 21-day application plan and two living experiments selected for your decision.


04 Integrate

Check in during the 21 days, then meet with for a 20-minute integration call to review what has changed and establish what you will carry forward.

Decisions take many forms.

Career ·

Business

Relationship


Opportunity


Family

Staying or leaving

Endings or beginnings

You can begin with a precise question, several competing options or a situation that has not yet formed into a clear decision. Your self-audit gives us the starting point.

Your Decide experience

  • One 60-minute one-to-one coaching session with Elle or Tamara

  • A pre-session self-audit

  • A personalised session summary

  • A personalised 21-day application plan

  • Two living experiments selected for your decision

  • A personal check-in during the 21 days

  • One 20-minute integration call

Delivered online / digitally




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DECIDE
$650.00

For the decision you need to make.

There comes a point when thinking about a decision for longer doesn't necessarily make it clearer.

In this 60-minute session, we'll get inside the decision with you. We'll look at what is making it difficult, what is influencing the way you're seeing it and what you already know but haven't been able to trust or act on.

It might concern your relationship, career, family, business, an opportunity you're considering or a significant change in your life. Whatever the decision, you don't need to arrive prepared or have your thoughts in order. Come as you are and we'll start there.

60 minutes · One-to-one · Online

After purchase, we’ll email you a link to choose a time for your session.

Work one-to-one with a Proper Standard founder.

Decide is delivered by Elle Begely or Tamara Hansen.

We bring rigorous thinking, close attention and the Proper Standard whole-human approach to the conversation. You retain authority over the decision. Our role is to make the influences surrounding it visible, ask what sits beneath the obvious answer and keep the conversation centred on what is true for you.

Meet Elle and Tamara →

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Make the decision yours.

Decide combines one-to-one coaching with personalised preparation, application and integration.

DECIDE
$650.00

For the decision you need to make.

There comes a point when thinking about a decision for longer doesn't necessarily make it clearer.

In this 60-minute session, we'll get inside the decision with you. We'll look at what is making it difficult, what is influencing the way you're seeing it and what you already know but haven't been able to trust or act on.

It might concern your relationship, career, family, business, an opportunity you're considering or a significant change in your life. Whatever the decision, you don't need to arrive prepared or have your thoughts in order. Come as you are and we'll start there.

60 minutes · One-to-one · Online

After purchase, we’ll email you a link to choose a time for your session.